July 20, 2008

Nostalgic moments...


Today we’d gone to our maternal grandparents’ place. It was after so many months that all four of us, i.e. my parents and me and my bro had gone to their place together. There are many reasons for that, primarily because my dad has been transferred to Mumbai and he cannot come frequently here, I and my brother have been very busy in our respective routines lately.

But today somehow everybody was available. And my maternal aunt had also come with her son. And as we were talking and relishing the sweets made by our Aaji (naani), we realized that it’s been so many years, not even months, that all of us cousins have spent some time together at that place.

Our grandpa’s place used to be our destination in every summer vacation. We used to go to a small hill near their house in the morning. And then used to play cards for hours together! Then there were innumerable fights, giving names to each other, scolding everybody else for supposedly done cheating, etc… In the evening, we used to throw water with the old pipe in the garden, in the name of watering plants.. and then after dinner, our Mama used to treat us with unlimited ice-cream everyday! At nights, we used to sleep on the terrace.. before which somebody or the other would tell us a ghost story! And then we used to have bets on who can go and take a round of the entire house without the lights being turned on, and stuff like that!

As everybody got into college life and later on to their respective post graduation and then jobs, frequency of us meeting in summer reduced. Still, those of us who were in the same city, had made an implicit agreement to meet every Sunday. This also went on for few years. But then we also got into our routines that this could not be followed much.

Today when grandpa said , “arey, we are oldies now, we have so much time… that’s why we want you all to come and spend some time with us. But we realize you people have become very busy now”, we felt so bad. This was not at all sarcastic comment, but an urge to meet all the grandchildren at least for some time. Though they are pretty much occupied and busy in their own schedule, and with my l’il cousins who stay with them, still they wish they could meet all of us regularly.
Which i thought was not at all something which we cannot fulfill.

We still have fond memories of those days… we wish that a time should come, when we can again be together, have such fun again, coz this is one thing which our grandparents wish for the most! They now tell us the stories and secrets, which we didn’t know back then, or were too small to understand, but still wanted to know because they belonged to our relatively older cousins… which make us feel nothing but nostalgic…

17 comments:

Solitaire said...

I love the company of grandparents and reminiscing over old times. Sigh!! How I wish those days would come back.

Ankur said...

u just made me cry!! :)

i miss those times!!!!
a lot!!! :)

gawddddddd!!!

Chakoli said...

Grandpa's and grandmothers...give u such a good company:)

u made me feel nostaligic:))

RADhika said...

@ solitaire,
yeah, even i remember the days so much... just wish could get some more time...

@ ankur,
awee... don't cry.. visit your Gparents soon.. :) that'll surely cheer you up! :)

@ chakoli,
yes they surely do! :)

neeraj said...
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neeraj said...

i remember meeting my cousins at kolhapur. It used to be an yearly trip in summer to meet my grandparents/uncles/cousins.. Had enjoyed those days a lot... but now RD i guess we are sailing in the same boat... It's been almost 10 years that i didnt see all my cousins together.It's a part of life.. but i really cherish those moments a lot.

gypsy said...

my grandparents died pretty erly, dunt even remmem their faces or nythin abt them but at times I just feel i wish they were here...

Anonymous said...

radhz, u made me nostalgic and i cant say more than being that you made me choke, everything u say is so true

Gunjan Aylawadi said...

wow...lucky u got to spend sme time with ur grandpaents!! most of us hardly get a chance!!

Ekta said...

its sad...really is...I feel guilty all the time...not just for grandparents but also parents...as we grow older and move away from parents we conveniently get caught up in our lives and forget them and how imp they are in our lives....

Ashish said...

never got a chance....

RADhika said...

@ neeraj,
yeah i can understand! and now with you being in such a distant place, i can understand how bad you must be feeling..

RADhika said...

@ d sinner,
oh so bad to hear that!

@ ashu,
really? i appreciate ur words...


@ gunj,
yeah, tht is correct! i really am lucky that i could get such a nice time with both the sets of grandparents...

RADhika said...

@ ekta,
you are so very correct... we tend to take granted such people who are so much important to us when we indulge in oru daily routines.. which actually makes us move away...which is very sad..

@ ashish,
so sorry to know that..

ceedy said...

I wish those times come back...
but 3 of 4 of my grandparents are no more....

they were so much fun...

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RADhika said...

@ ceedy,
oh so sorry to hear that... i can understand the fun you must be missing..