March 4, 2008

Unfair?


“Oh her life is so perfect!”… i though… when i met one of my very good friends the other day. She has everything which anybody could ask for… Great career, married to her love of life (who incidentally is also doing fantastic in his own career) who loves her like crazy, great house which is very appealingly decorated, ... Yeah, everything!

And i almost have those things which i want..

How can some people have everything and we always just wait for some things in life? I am contented very fast.. but that doesn’t mean that there is no passion left in life.. there are so many things to be done, in so little time.. so many things to be achieved, through so few resources.. But i have that passion to do those things on my own...

There are many moments when we feel everything in life is satisfying and pleasing. But the next thing you know is some problem has come up, which you had never thought of, and which if unnoticed, can ruin everything!

Oh damn! This is unfair! Why can’t our life go as per the plans? Why can’t we just take into consideration all the extraneous yet important matters into consideration?

We don’t want everything.. But, why can’t we just live the way we want to?? How come some people live a peaceful life, when they don't deserve a bit of it?

20 comments:

Solitaire said...

Because there is only so much that we can do.

Ashish said...

Life is an Equilibrium, where forces of disappointments and happiness balance each other. No matter how much we try we cannot shift this point of equilibrium. Only thing we can do is draw Free Body Diagram :D

Anonymous said...

Great questions Radz, but the contentment is somethign which stops us from growing and being evolving.....

dont know the answer to the question why some people have easy going or some have to fight it out for every thing, but may be we dont know the internal thought process of the people we envy who have it easy......they might be thinking the same, since we dont have a mechanism to know the internal process of a person, very difficult to guess!!!!

RADhika said...

@ solitare,
yeah, may be that's why we go on..

@ ashish,
yes i know, but then it should balance at time, you see..!!
and thanx for the diagram... ;-)

@ ashu,
that's true, the internal process is never known. and may be, this discontenment is something which bothers us and leads us to new ideas..

Mez said...

Hehe, I wonder that so often. Maybe there time to "want" will also come sometime.I guess for us it now n for them it will be sometime later. We all have to go thru hardhips in life..just a matter of time.

Ashish said...

To add to Mez, may be they had "want" time when we had "Good" time...just a thought to make myself feel better ;)

RADhika said...

@ mez,
oh it'll be so nice to know when it happens to them! :)

@ ashish,
WHat??????

Ashish said...

just to make myself feel better, no strings attached!!

RADhika said...

@ ashish,
hmm.. that's better!! :)

Mez said...

U mite just manage some laugh at my latest Mallu post. So u use blue Revlon?

Anonymous said...

updates pls radzz

Mez said...

Hey how come ur blog says amittalking wen u are Radhika?

Ekta said...

Will just leave u with a thot...there is a very fab chinese saying..thats also my fav quote...'may u live in interesting times"...doesnt say may u live in good times...
Hope it gets the message across

Sam said...

are you absolutely sure that their life is peaceful?? Pry a ittle and you'll find the peace that you see is nothing but fake and there are as many cracks as you have in your life!!!

Satish Bolla said...

a thought provoking post. loved this part... " there are so many things to be done, in so little time.. so many things to be achieved, through so few resources"

RADhika said...

@ mez,
yeah, just got that blue shade.. i's fabulous.. oh and it's not amittalking, its am-i-talking!! :P

RADhika said...

@ ashu,
hey dear... i know i've been really late this time.. but this stupid viral infection didn;t allow me to do anything.. :( will surely do something abt it soon... :)

@ ekta,
Yeah, i get the point! :)

RADhika said...

@ sam,
exactly! trying to curb that!!

@ satish,
Thanx man! and thanx for droppin by!

sid said...

Happened to drop by. For me this is one of those "sawal jinka koi jawab nahin"...I guess if therz 99% perpiration to get anything then therz 1% luck too...and the maths seems a bit distorted here...the 1% seems to have a greater impact on the result:-p.

RADhika said...

@ sid,
exactly.. and this is why all the logics suck!! :(